I've had no say in any part of our living situation as Newlyweds, and my partner doesn't have a whole lot of say with his parents either. A year before we got married, my husband's parents sold their house, and built a new house in Arizona. Before leaving their original house they bought a condo with my now husband, so that they had a place while they were building their new house.
My FIL was semi-retired as CEO of his small business, and after the Arizona house was built, they lived there 3 weeks out of the month. They stayed with my fiancee one week a month. That was supposed to continue after I moved in. . .
The situation changed as we approached the wedding. My FIL decided to completely retire and dissolve the business. They've been living with us full time since we got married.
My husband's parents have never treated him like an adult. He's 27, and lived on his own for most of his adult life, and they still treat him like a child. They're extremely disrespectful and belittling. When I came into the picture they treated me the same way. Living with them is like going over to your 12 yr. old crush's house. His mother thinks every domestic thing I do is cute, and takes pictures of us we make dinner together ( to send to the family).
We have at least two months left of this situation, and I'm going to lose my mind. Advice is appreciated!
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