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xRApril
Expert May 2018

Night before the wedding?

xRApril, on February 3, 2018 at 3:45 AM

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I’ve been looking through forums, but I haven’t really seen this be addressed. But I’m so curious about this! Couples that live together, what are your sleeping arrangements for the night before the wedding?! Should one of us go stay somewhere else? Or do most couples just spend the night together...
I’ve been looking through forums, but I haven’t really seen this be addressed. But I’m so curious about this! Couples that live together, what are your sleeping arrangements for the night before the wedding?! Should one of us go stay somewhere else? Or do most couples just spend the night together like normal? I had one friend that had her FH go stay at his parents house. I just don’t know if that’s what usually happens? We’ve only been apart 2 days since we moved in together so I’m not sure if I could sleep the night before if he’s not there?! But will I even be able to sleep anyway? Do you see if BMs want to stay the night (we all live pretty close)? I guess I’m just curious what other couples are planning on doing!

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  • FutureMrsS
    Expert October 2018
    FutureMrsS ·
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    My fiance will be staying at his mothers house and I will be staying in the cabin that we also booked for our wedding night. I think my MOH will be staying with me!

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  • Lee
    Devoted May 2019
    Lee ·
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    I think we will be staying at our house. I feel silly spending money to stay somewhere else when we only live 30 minutes from our location.
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  • Holly
    Devoted August 2021
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    Since our venue is in a different city than where we live, we will probably be spending the night at the same hotel as our guests, and we'll stay together. The morning of the wedding, we'll head over to the venue together and set everything up along with our bridal party and parents, and then separate early afternoon with our respective parties and won't see each other again until I walk down the aisle! I want to enjoy all the pre-wedding jitters and excitement with him - it's like Christmas Eve but better!

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  • kellsie
    Beginner November 2019
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    As of right now I believe my fiancé and I will be staying in a big house with our whole bridal party! We’re young, in our early 20’s, and 75% of our bridal party will be from out-of-state, so we want to hangout with them as much as possible! Also, I will have to go back to school and he work the day after our wedding (I just got in nursing school and he’s military in a different state), so I want to be able to spend as much time with him that weekend since we won’t be together following the wedding like most couples). It won’t be a party, just hanging around! I’ll leave super early in the morning to get ready, hopefully before he wakes up!
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