No Bridal Bouquet

I carried a little sealskin pouch with beadwork, the size of a paperback. Some commented that they had thought it was a prayer ook, but in fact it had mementos of my deceased, much loved, grandfathers and one grandmother, and a few small things I treasure, sort of good luck charms with a personal meaning.

I’m trying to come up with something other than a bouquet for myself. I’m not big on flowers and I can’t justify the money on them.

The best part about getting married these days is that there are no rules! So if you don’t want to carry anything, then dont!

Honestly, I doubt many people will even notice. They’ll be looking at your face and dress and back to the groom to catch his reaction.

SOLA WOOD FLOWERS on Etsy! Custom and keep forever!

View Quoted Comment These are pretty I had to add the money one in to be funny.

View Quoted Comment Any idea on how you'll hold your bouquet with both of your parents?

View Quoted Comment That's a sweet idea!

View Quoted Comment Lolllll. My decision is made now! Shot of tequila please haha. Your mom is so cool for that!

View Quoted Comment Wow that is going to be so beautiful and personal! Great idea!

View Quoted Comment Very pretty! I can't wait to see your pictures to see how this comes out!

View Quoted Comment I have thought about pictures as well and if I would miss any without a bouquet. Thank you for sharing!
I'm just being difficult and don't want to have stuff just because tradition says I'm supposed to.

View Quoted Comment Awww how cute! Having your nieces by your side beats the bouquet for sure! Please post pictures

View Quoted Comment My mom said she'll make a faux flower arrangement for me and my bridesmaids if I want her to. I'm all for my bridesmaids having them but I'm not sure if I do. I may as well!

View Quoted Comment See that's what I like about the faux arrangements; you can actually keep them if you'd like! I'm sure you'll think of your wedding every time you eat at your dining table.

View Quoted Comment My first quote for the bouquet was $165 and I was in shock lol. Even though my mother is paying for it, I just can't.
I have a consultation with another florist next week for our centerpieces. So I maybe I can tell them my concerns and they can provide some suggestions to make my bouquet more affordable.

View Quoted Comment I have definitely considered faux flowers! My mom is really crafty and I'm sure they'll come out awesome with her help.
Just me being rebellious lol

View Quoted Comment Very nice! How long did it take you to make?

View Quoted Comment Thank you!! I want to say a little over a week because I kept running out of material. And also I kept adding material. I am not big on flowers at all and wanted something different. I watched a you tube video and I just tailored the bling bouquet to my style. I am wearing a fuschia wedding dress so I incorporated fuschia bling.

I think you should definitely hold something, whether it's artificial flowers or something similar. Our photographer took a few photos without the bouquets and the images look plain without them. The flowers added so much visual appeal to everyone's overall look. I highly recommend getting something!

My cousin did a brooch bouquet that turned out gorgeous. She had family members give her special pins and it came out gorgeous. If you go that route start working on it now if you plan to DIY since it took longer to make than anticipated. Also it was about 15 lbs.

View Quoted Comment I agree! None of my guests are going to remember what my bouquet looked like anyway.

I think it'll be best if I used faux flowers so I fan arrange the flowers how I want and maybe I'll be more excited about having one.

As of right now, it just seems like something I'm "supposed" to have.

Have you come up with any ideas for yourself?