Hey everyone! My FH and I already know that we want a very small/private ceremony (only about 30 people of immediate family members and closest friends). I don't want official "bridesmaids" per say because we don't plan on having anyone stand up with us at the ceremony. I do however have 4 very close girlfriends who I would like to be my "unofficial bridesmaids". Ideally they would be involved in the planning to whatever degree they would like and would be there to get ready with me day of. My question is how to I ask/explain this to them? I was thinking maybe a small gift like a robe? I don't want them to feel like they are going to have to spend tons of money on dresses, shower, hair/makeup, etc. It's going to be very low key and informal. I just want them to know that they are special to me despite not standing up in the ceremony. Any unique ideas/suggestions would be great!
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