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Kristen
Expert February 2023

No bridal party?

Kristen, on August 10, 2021 at 11:00 AM Posted in Parties and Events 0 13
My FH and I have been considering not having a bridal party. This is neither our first marriage. I don’t really want to put the burden of the expenses attached to being in the bridal party on friends/family. Plus, we would save money on not having to buys gifts, etc. I’m really ok with not having a “squad”. Has anyone else done this?

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Latest activity by Kari, on August 11, 2021 at 10:42 AM
  • M
    VIP January 2019
    Maggie ·
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    Yep, lots of people do this. I didn't have one and have no regrets.

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  • Kristen
    Expert February 2023
    Kristen ·
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    Cool! Did you have people get ready with you the day of? Or did you do it all independently?
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  • Nisha
    Expert May 2022
    Nisha ·
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    We're not having a wedding party, as it's a second wedding for us both. I thought about having my best local friend be Matron of Honor, but she was in my 1st wedding and I don't wanna make her feel like she has to do it if I ask. My 6 friends have enthusiastically agreed to wear dark green attire of their own choosing as a show of support for me, so they'll be an unofficial wedding party. I mentioned in the group chat that I had thought about it and they said they wanted to do it.

    I'll have 2 of them in the dressing suite with me. Our children will be involved; his 12 year old daughter will be our "flower child" and my 2 little ones, 8 and 5, will carry signs down the aisle.

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  • M
    VIP January 2019
    Maggie ·
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    I got ready in my step-mom's hotel room and my sisters were there as well.

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  • Stacey
    Super May 2021
    Stacey ·
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    Lots of couples do this. We didn't have a wedding party either as we couldn't think of one single practical reason why we needed one. No regrets whatsoever!

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  • B
    Just Said Yes June 2023
    Brittany ·
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    I don’t plan on having one. I’ve had a bit of family ask why and try to convince me to have one but I have no interest in having one.
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  • Maddie
    Expert February 2022
    Maddie ·
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    We are doing this, and it is both our first marriage. One reason is that he has a million friends and I have very few (even less who are women) and most are out of state. My personal reason is, I just don't want the drama. Someone always has an issue with the wardrobe, or hurt feelings, or how much it's going to cost them and I just don't want to deal with it. I have my man of honor and that's it

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  • Josie
    Dedicated October 2022
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    I'm also not having a bridal party and it's our first time marriage for both of us. I think it's one of the best decisions we could have made, honestly. A lot of extra planning, logistics and $$ go into having a wedding party and it's not something that's important to us. Everyone we love and are close to will be in attendance and that's what matters to us (plus they can wear whatever they want, lol). My sisters and best friend will be with me when I go dress shopping, and they will also get ready with me before the wedding.

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  • CountryBride
    VIP April 2022
    CountryBride ·
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    Its up to you I have never been to a wedding without a bridal party but I think it wouldn't be a bad idea

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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    We also skipped. No extra cost, stress or drama for anyone! I had my mom & sister get ready with me. You can do something similar if you wish.
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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
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    No problem to not have a wedding party. You can ask whomever you want to come get ready with you!

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  • Jenine
    Beginner June 2022
    Jenine ·
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    Decision is all up to you. We were on the fence for the same reasons not wanting to be a financial burden and a lot less stress, only doing maid of honor and best man. My fiancé actually wants the groomsmen so I have compromised to a small party of 3 on each side.
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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
    Kari ·
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    I didn't have a bridal party, but my husband had three groomsmen. It was fine.

    I would have liked to have bridesmaids, I just didn't have anyone who fit the bill. My best friend was going to be my MOH but she got pregnant and was due the same week as our Covid-rescheduled wedding. When she couldn't come, I couldn't see asking anyone else.

    I had three friends help me with flower decorations and get ready with me, but they weren't official bridesmaids. It worked out great! While I would have loved to have more of a wedding color scheme come together and have some great girl photos, as well as at least one pre-wedding party (would have loved a bachelorette), I wasn't heartbroken about not having bridesmaids. It did feel a bit lonely at times during planning but it all came together in the end. Also that's kind of just the course of my life so I should be used to it by now.

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