Is there some sort of ettiquette for this? Should I be asking around to see if someone wants to take charge of hosting them? That kind of feels like a bummer just because it would be nice if someone would step up on their own and actually want to host it, but I also understand that no one is as excited about your wedding as you are haha. As of now, I've just tried to keep an attitude like "whatever happens, happens" and try to not get too upset if I don't end up having a bridal shower or bachelorette party, but I'm sure it will still sting a little bit haha.
Any advice or insight is appreciated! Thanks!