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Mrs.Jeppesenforeternity
Dedicated August 2017

No Bridal Shower?

Mrs.Jeppesenforeternity, on May 8, 2017 at 2:39 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 50

I'm curious if there are any brides out there who did not have a bridal shower thrown for them before their wedding? I don't think I'll get one, but I'm ok with it cause the best part in all this is that I get to marry my best friend Smiley smile

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Latest activity by Allyson, on May 9, 2017 at 5:50 AM
  • Zulander
    Super July 2017
    Zulander ·
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    I'm not having a bridal shower. I was not really interested in having one in the first place. My MOH asked me initially what things I wanted, like did I want a shower and bachelorette party. I told her that I didn't want a shower and thus one didn't happen. I think if you really would like one, you could talk to a friend, mom, or MOH about it.

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  • Sarah
    Super June 2017
    Sarah ·
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    My sister asked me if I wanted one. (No to the shower, girls day out in lieu of bachelorette party). If you really want either one ask your mom or maid of honor to organize for you.

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  • Chica
    VIP October 2017
    Chica ·
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    By this post, it makes me think you want one (I could be wrong). Do you have BMs, close family, friends that are likely to throw one for you? Unfortunately, you cant really throw one for yourself which sucks bc I think every bride who wants one should get one. But it doesn't always work out that way. Wishing someone will throw one for you. I am so grateful my FH, MOH, and family are already planning one.

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  • FutureMrs.Smith
    Super February 2018
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    I'm not having one. It's not really a popular thing to do in my circle of friends. Plus I live really far way from my close family and friends.

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  • GummyBearSTL
    Super July 2017
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    I didn't want one, but FH's stepmom wanted to throw me one, and ppl told me that it would be rude to tell her no, so I'm just letting her throw me one.

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  • Sarah
    Expert October 2017
    Sarah ·
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    I'm not having one... nore a bachelorette party

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  • duchess
    Super May 2017
    duchess ·
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    I am not doing one. Getting together with a few girls a couple nights before the wedding for an evening out. But that's about it.

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  • T Marie
    Super October 2017
    T Marie ·
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    I don't want one but when I voiced it to my MOH she didn't seem happy about it, hopefully I won't have one.

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  • TheFutureMrsWalker
    Super August 2017
    TheFutureMrsWalker ·
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    We aren't having one but this is also second marriage for us so I don't feel it's needed.

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  • Angeline
    Devoted July 2017
    Angeline ·
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    Sounds like you may want one amd you should let you MOH or other close family member know so they can organize. My MOH asked if I wanted on and I said I did not. Not my thing.

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  • KittyPrawn
    Master June 2017
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    I didn't have one. My mom asked me if I wanted one, and I just wasn't really interested.

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  • Rocio H
    Devoted October 2017
    Rocio H ·
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    I am also not getting one. My family and friends don't do bridal showers. I didn't know it was a thing till I got herem

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  • Siabean
    Devoted June 2017
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    I kinda wanted one but ended up not having it for scheduling reasons. Some very dear family friends on his side wanted to throw one but we could not find a single weekend that worked, have had to travel a lot this year. Did however manage to find a bachelorette weekend so you know, priorities! :-)

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  • K
    Super July 2017
    Karen ·
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    I'm not expecting one, but I also wouldn't want to have one! I've been married 2x's... a bridal shower is completely unnecessary.

    ETA- no bachelorette either, that doesn't appeal to me.

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  • Baletica
    Master June 2017
    Baletica ·
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    I'm not having one and probably won't be having a true bachelorette either. I'll just probably go out a couple of weeks before with them.

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  • N
    Master December 2016
    Nancy ·
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    Didn't want one. silly games, more cost for guests. Meh...

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  • Katie
    Devoted May 2017
    Katie ·
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    FH had his bachelor party yesterday but it looks like I won't be getting a bacchelorette party or a bridal shower

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  • Lisa
    Super May 2018
    Lisa ·
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    I'm not having a bridal shower. I don't really know what the point of one is when guests will already give presents at the wedding... I don't expect them twice.

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  • QueSeraSera
    VIP December 2017
    QueSeraSera ·
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    I was indifferent about it, and then my FMIL insisted so now I'm having one Smiley tongue

    But skipping bachelorette party

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  • Becky
    Expert January 2018
    Becky ·
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    I'm assuming I'm not having one. My friends and family are scattered around the country and they won't all be here until the wedding anyways. So we won't be able to get together in one spot to do any of that stuff (showers, bach parties etc).

    We're also doing a really small ceremony thing anyways (less than 20 people) so there'd be like no one to invite outside family & wedding party

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