So I’m leaning towards *not* having a BS for a couple reasons..One because my fiancé and I have been living together for the past 5 years and we have accumulated a whole bunch of stuff. We really honestly don’t need anything. Two we’re having a destination wedding. We’re only inviting super close family like parents, close aunts/uncles, cousins and grandparents and then our bridal party of 12 who are our best friends! I’d feel completely awful inviting someone to my bridal shower who is not coming to the wedding. That just seems wrong to me. And Three because we are having a DW, I feel bad asking people for gifts who are already coming down and paying they’re way down for the wedding. I know our wedding day is about us, but it’s also an event for our families too! I’m keeping prices and everything in mind for the sake of everyone!
So my question is...is it wrong to not have a shower? Besides (don’t kill me for saying this to those who love it lol!!) but I think a lot of the games and stuff played at bridal showers are corny lol!!
Post content has been hidden
To unblock this content, please click here
Related articles
![7 Bridal Shower Traditions You Can Totally Skip](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/articles/images/1/8/0/7/img_7081/tb_lumme-creations.jpg)
Bridal & Wedding Showers
7 Bridal Shower Traditions You Can Totally Skip
Avoid an outdated event filled with awkwardness by skipping these seven bridal...
![These 30 Bridal Shower Songs Are Perfect for a Chill Event](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/articles/images/4/3/9/1/img_21934/tb_bridal-shower-the-modern-barn-venue-malia-maureen-photography.jpg)
Bridal & Wedding Showers
These 30 Bridal Shower Songs Are Perfect for a Chill Event
Celebrate at the party before the party.
![25 Little White Dresses for Your Bridal Shower](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/articles/images/9/1/4/6/img_26419/tb_bridal-shower-dresses-hero-image.jpg)
Bride & Bridesmaids
25 Little White Dresses for Your Bridal Shower
Get ready to shop these LWDs that are anything but boring.