My husband and I were supposed to have our wedding this May, but ended up doing a Covid elopement with just eight guests, and rescheduled our bigger event for June 2021. Originally, I was just going to have my best friend be my MOH and my husband was going to have four groomsmen. Now my MOH is pregnant and will not be at our wedding.
I could ask a couple other girls I would have included the first time around but didn't (neither could attend our May wedding so I never asked) but I'm not sure if it would be weird to ask them now when I didn't ask them originally, I know it would upset my best friend, it would be weird to have other girls by my side and not have her there, and the thought of doing any additional planning for our wedding that still might not happen (and adding in the expenses of additional bouquets and such for them) stresses me out. I wanted mismatched bridesmaids to begin with and maybe don't need to get them bouquets, but I don't know. Maybe I could just ask them or a few other girls to get ready with me and not have them be official bridesmaids.
Any suggestions as to how to make our wedding feel less lopsided and help me not feel like a friendless, misfit bride?
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