Hello everyone. I am new to this discussion board, and I am looking for different opinions (other than immediate family) about my daughter's wedding that took place last month. A little background about my family...my daughter has had two sets of parents from age 10 as I am divorced from her mother. My daughter lived 90% of the time with me and her stepmom. Everyone in our household got along as she was growing up. Happy, content, etc. When my daughter went to visit her mother for the summers, she always came home telling us how badly her step-father treated her. Now, fast forward, she is 30 years old and has had the opportunity to live closer to her mother after university. I live three states away so our visits were limited. She has had BBQs, parties, holidays, etc with her mother and stepfather over the last six years. My daughter asked me if I would walk her down the aisle and of course, I said yes. My situation came about when 3 days before the wedding I got a call from my daughter telling me that she changed her mind and would like her stepfather to walk her down the aisle instead of me. I was shocked, lost for words, and I felt extremely hurt, and of course angry. I have always been close to my daughter and to have her tell me this resulted in me not attending the wedding. I could not believe that she asked the man who all I ever heard about as "not a nice person." She told me on the phone if I didn't attend her wedding I will have ultimately ruined her wedding because she wanted me there.
I have not heard anything from my daughter since last month. Has anyone else known of a situation like mine? Am I wrong to be so upset that the other parent who only had summers with her and no responsibility in raising her to get chosen to walk her down the aisle?