No Flower Girl or Ring Bearer?

We’re not having them either. We chooose not to because our family has many young children and we didn’t want to leave anyone out or spend the money/effort to fit them all into the ceremony

Totally fine! We have my 6 year old son as a ring bearer and no flower girl. We don’t have any nieces and aren’t close with any young girls.

We didn’t have them either. I actually never even thought about having them. But we also felt very strongly about an adult only event, which might have been why I didn’t consider them.

We're skipping them! I had invited a friend's daughter to be FG, but they ran into a hiccup and aren't able to travel right now so they're going to be FaceTimed in instead.

We are not having children in our wedding party. We felt it was too much work. Children can be very unpredictable (I would know, I teach kindergarten). So we decided it would be best to just have all the little ones as guests, rather than in the actual wedding. Less stress for us lol.

We're not having a flower girl or ring bearer. We're giving our rings to our officiant.

We won't be having either of those.

We’re having an adults only event too. Our dogs will be ring bearer and flower girls.

We aren’t having either. I don’t think it is mandatory to have, only if there is special children in your life you wish to include

We’re not having either since the only options are kids 5 and under and they’re very badly
behaved. Don’t really want to add extra stress to the wedding day.

View Quoted Comment This is my situation. Who held the rings for you?

View Quoted Comment The minister held the rings.