No garter toss, replace it?

Was there a favourite song to the grandfather? Maybe your fiancé and grandmother can dance to? You could also have menu cards at the tables and put “in loving memory of” on the back. That’s tough.....to not bum everyone out, but still celebrate their amazing lives together for so many years.

We just lost the garter toss and didn't replace it with anything else. I didn't do a bouquet toss, either, just presented it to an engaged couple. (It was so low-key, my photographer nearly didn't catch it.)

We honored our grandparents/lost loved ones with a picture wall.

If you'd like an anniversary dance, just do it, and honor your grandfather in a different way.

We didn't do a garter toss or a bouquet toss. We did do an anniversary dance, but you don't have to replace the garter toss with anything. Most of your guests won't even notice.