I want to preface this by saying there's no good way to really discuss this without sounding gift grabby...and I'm not mad in any way, just seeing if this has happened to other people.
Just got back from our honeymoon (which was amazing and a BAM to come later) and finished sending out thank you cards for some gifts we received while we were away. Before going I wrote and sent a thank you card to each guest at our wedding, whether we received a gift or not from them. We had many OOT guests and I was very happy to just have them there with us for our special day.
Having said that, about 1/2 of our guests did not give a gift. The OOT guests were all from my side and we received a gift from all of them at the wedding, some friends that gave a lot for the shower we got a very kind congratulations card (my guests are from New England where money is the customary wedding gift). DH's local family and friends gave nothing, no cards, just nothing.
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