Hi friends
My FH and I have discussed delaying legalizing our union for a few years but still would like a wedding ceremony. We're also having our wedding in NY but live in the midwest now. We've been thinking to ask one of our close friends to "officiate" our wedding to make it more personal to us (and so we dont have to tell a bunch of people although we're "pronounced husband and wife" that its not technically legal yet. We don't need them to go online to register as official though.
We're open to an officiant that would be able to do this for us, but i'm not sure if that's even an option? I think these are often called "Commitment Ceremonies". Eventually we plan to go to the town hall where we live and make it legal. Will we encounter any issues in doing it this way? We don't mind having two different "anniversary" dates