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AtoZ
Devoted May 2019

Non-pro Bam! May 4, 2019

AtoZ, on May 15, 2019 at 10:45 PM Posted in Married Life 0 23

WOW! Back and married! We are not expecting our professional photos back for several more weeks, so enjoy the very few photos I took of the day! Please disregard the chaos - I was out in the venue, in my robe, snapping a handful of pictures before everything was finished Smiley xd

Let's backtrack for a minute. My dress was in alterations for about 6 weeks, from drop off to pickup. During this time, I felt as though I had gained a little in my butt and hips (squats kill...) and decided I wanted to let it out a pinch because the satin was pulling a little bit. 4 days before the wedding, I finally get to see the finished product and take it home. To my surprise, the dress was 2 inches too big on both sides of my hips. I almost had a break down. My amazing seamstress took care of it and it fit PERFECT on wedding day!

We had originally planned for an outdoor ceremony. I had been watching the weather (literally every hour for a week LOL) and we decided to move it all inside the venue. Fortunately, our venue is massive and could house both the reception and the ceremony without changing any of our current layouts. I was very upset about moving it inside at first, but honestly, I don't think it would have been as beautiful outside! My amazing decorator took care of all of the changes with my venue. Not pictured was our runner, which was laid right before our party started walking.

Honestly, I don't think I could have dreamed up more perfect decor. It far exceeded my expectations and was exactly what we wanted. My cake was made by my mother, who runs a dessert business on the side. She also made our bouquets, bouts, and corsages. She is a rockstar!

Ladies, for those of you still planning - everything is going to be amazing. I promise! Even if not everything goes as planned Smiley heart

Approximate Breakdown

Budget: $20,000 for 275 guests

Venue: $2,000

18-Person Chalet: $600/weekend (got ready here with my girls, stayed here with new hubbs)

Cake & Desserts: Free to us

Florals: $400 spent on fake flowers (Michael's, Hobby Lobby, and JoAnn's)

Food: $2,200 (Buffet: pulled pork, grilled chicken, scalloped potatoes, green beans, rolls, side salad)

Alcohol: $1,800 (5 kegs, 48 bottles of wine, liquor for the bridal party, bartenders fees, all tapping/delivery fees)

DJ: $1,000

Photographers: $3,000 (we got lucky with 2 photographers and an assistant photographer! Her prices have changed since we booked - she is INCREDIBLE)

All Decor: $3,800 (all centerpieces, linens, back drops, cake stands, etc - I made all of the signs! She is also INCREDIBLE)

Hair: $80/pp

Makeup: $200/total (my new 15-year SIL is so great)

Bridesmaid gifts: $50/pp (monogrammed robes, tumblers, clutch for wedding day, hangers)

Groomsmen gifts: $45/pp (tumblers, bottle openers)

Total Spent

Around $15,000 - including cutlery, plates, bar cups, and all of the small things. Gifts not included, neither are our rings or attire.

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23 Comments

Latest activity by Paula, on May 21, 2019 at 7:35 PM
  • SraDeCarrillo
    Super August 2019
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    Beautiful, congratulations!

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  • Wendy
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    Congrats!!! Beautiful pics and couple!!!!Smiley winking
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  • Ingrid
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    Side bar: Your boobs look amazing
    Everything looks beautiful, Congratulations
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  • AtoZ
    Devoted May 2019
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    Haha! Thank you 😍
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    Wow absolutely stunning!
    may I ask if that much alcohol was correct? Did you have a lot leftover? Is your crowd drinkers? We’re having around 200 or so and we had planned for much less beer and more wine. We’re 36 days out and I’m not sure how much to get lol!
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  • AtoZ
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    Yes, the 5 kegs and wine are correct! We didn’t THINK our crowd were big drinkers but... 😂 we reserved 7 kegs, because we got a light beer and a darker beer and we wanted everyone to have a choice. We went through 4 entire kegs of light beer, and about 3/4 of a keg of darker beer.

    We chose to get cases of Moscato and sweet red versus just getting bottles. We bought Pinot Grigio and Chardonnay by the bottle. We went through 38 bottles (2+ cases) of moscato and 1 1/2 cases of sweet red. The rest were per bottle.

    Our bartenders were even shocked! They told me “We saw your guest list of 275 and didn’t think we’d even tap keg 4”. I’m glad we reserved so many, but yes, I’m shocked too! I think my wedding might be the odd scenario, don’t worry 😂 We also used a local tavern/inn for our bar catering and they were EXTREMELY reasonable ($155/keg, $8-12 per bottle of wine, etc)
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    Your dress is so gorgeous! Who’s the designer??
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  • Janiya
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    Absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!! Everything looked gorgeous! Congrats to you and your hubby! I can feel the love through the pictures.

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  • Dita
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    Everything looked so beautiful and you were gorgeous in that dress! Congrats!!
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  • Patience
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    Wow! Stunning everything looks great from your dress to the decor. Congrats glad you enjoyed your day!
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  • Sinéad
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    Congratulations!!Smiley ring

    You looked absolutely stunning!! You and your husband look like you had an amazing day!Smiley love

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  • C
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    Wow - gorgeous, fun pictures!!!! Congrats! 🎉💛🎉
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  • Michelle
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    OMG!!! Soooooo beautiful! You did a great job with planning! Also you guys look sooooo happy! Congratulations!!
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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
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    Congratulations Smiley ring

    Beautiful photos!

    You looked stunning Smiley love

    That cake table is a masterpiece!!

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  • Katherine
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    The pictures you do have are awesome! Congrats and also great job staying under your budget! Thanks for sharing this!

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  • Cristy
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    Really beautiful!! You look so happy! Congratulations!!

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  • MIWM
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    Absolutely beautiful! Congrats!!

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  • Patrice
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    Dress twins! You look amazing!
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  • Nicole
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    Congratulations everything looks so gorgeous!

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    Gorgeous! Thanks for the advice! Congratulations! Thanks for sharing
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