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Mrs. C
Super May 2019

Non-pro bam! May 4th wedding!

Mrs. C, on May 6, 2019 at 11:07 AM Posted in Married Life 0 43
So I will give more advice in my pro bam post later on but just wanted to check in and let you all know how things went! I generally believe the day would fly by but I had no idea how fast it would feel until I was in the moment living it. One minute I am dancing and singing with my bridesmaids while getting ready and the next I am leaving in my new husbands car. There were a lot of hiccups that day (and the day before as well) that caused a HUGE amount of stress (aka cake being wrong, fridge with wedding food going out, rain causing us to not get as many pictures as we wanted, etc.) but we made the most of it. There are moments that stand out in my mind more than any of them and they are 1) my first look with my dad, 2) (an unexpectedly beautiful moment) when taking pictures with my bridesmaids, my videographer has them surround me and look at me and each day one thing they loved about me and our friendship which was the most beautiful moment I will never forget, 3) a blindfolded “first look” I had with my husband; we each took turns praying together and he cried more than I ever thought he would. He caused me to cry so much I could hardly get my prayer out. And finally 4) the moment just before walking down the aisle to him. My hands were shaking so bad and my heart was pounding. My dad reaches over and held my hand while I was holding his arm and a calm washed over me. As soon as I saw my husbands standing there at the end of the aisle, crying like a baby, all the nerves melted into tears of joy.

All of that to say, your day may be hectic, crazy, and at times you may have things go so wrong you want to go bridezilla on EVERYONE WHO TALKS TO YOU, but take time to soak moments like these in. Because they are so beautiful and will last a lifetime. Thank you all for all of your help and advice on this journey with me through wedding planning! Good luck to all of you beautiful brides! ❤️ Here are some pictures my family and friends captured of the day. More to come!

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43 Comments

Latest activity by MIWM, on May 17, 2019 at 11:15 AM
  • Future Mrs. K
    VIP June 2019
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    Congrats, I was thinking of you this weekend! You looked gorgeous and your venue was beautiful! Can't wait to see more pictures and appreciate your advice. I had my bridal shower this past weekend and it was beautiful but toward the end when we were cleaning up and packing up the gifts, it felt like I had 10,000 people asking me different things and putting stuff in random cars and I almost had a bridezilla freak out for a minute haha so I appreciate you reminding me to not let this happen the day of.

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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    Beautiful photos! It sounds like you had such a wonderful day and I am so glad you were able to make the best of all the hiccups. Congratulations! Can’t wait to see the pro pics as well!
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  • Mrs. C
    Super May 2019
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    I understand! There were SO many things that went wrong and I just had to learn to let it go. My hubby was late to the venue, I left my marriage license at home so my dad has to run and get it, the house where we wanted couple pictures on the beautiful wooden staircase was locked up when we were ready to go take pictures and the venue owners had gone home, we were late getting family pictures, I felt like I couldn’t mingle enough so people started leaving, people went CRAZY over our bundt cakes and ate like 10 at a time per person (we didn’t serve a meal but made it clear on our invites that it was a DESSERT BAR, we were in the middle of getting whole bridal party pictures when it started POURING rain and we all about broke our necks running inside of the barn trying to get out of the rain. Anyways.....I am lucky I had both my girls AND his guys because they reassured me MULTIPLE TIMES that everything was gonna be ok. They were awesome and made the day so much more special! Good luck and I look forward to hearing more about your wedding soon!! 😍
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  • Mrs. C
    Super May 2019
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    Also be prepared for a few “randoms” to show up. There was absolutely nothing we could do to stop this. People are rude and that will never change. At one point while taking pictures my husband and I looked over at some people and I was like “do you know them?” and he goes “I have never seen them before in my life.” 🙈
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  • Amanda
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    Yay! Congrats
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  • Future Mrs. K
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    OMG hahaha this I will definitely need to prepare myself for. Our guestlist has been the biggest issue for us and I know if random people showed up it would drive me absolutely insane so I appreciate your warning! I will definitely need to prepare myself to get over this now so it doesn't bother me day-of.

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  • Formerbride
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    Congrats. You looked beautiful!!❤
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  • Fenja
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    My god everthing looks beautiful!!! Congrats! And I absolutely love your dress!

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  • Future Mrs. K
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    I'm glad you were able to let it go and enjoy your day! I feel like when you're planning everyone warns you that things will go wrong and it's so easy to think it won't happen to you so it's nice hearing people's real and raw stories - the good and the not so good, so I can prepare myself now for whatever may happen. I'm happy you were able to not let these things bother you and had great people to support you!! As everyone says, at the end of the day you're married and that's all that really matters.

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  • Mrs. C
    Super May 2019
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    Thank you so much!!! Smiley smile

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  • Victoria
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    Beautiful! I'm glad you were able to look past everything that went wrong to appreciate what your day was really about - getting married! I love, love, LOVE how your videographer had your girls tell you about your friendship. I'm all teary eyed here at work.

    Congratulations!
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  • Halle
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    What a beautiful wedding !!!!!!! Girl you looked absolutely stunning !!!
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  • Katy
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    You looked so beautiful! With my wedding only a couple of weeks away I really appreciate your advice❤️ Can’t wait to see the BAM
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  • Katy
    Dedicated February 2019
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    Oops I meant to say PRO BAM*
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  • C
    Devoted June 2019
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    Looks like a fantastic day, and those smiles make any hiccup irrelevant! Love your dress and veil!!!! Congrats!!
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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
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    Congrats!!

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  • MrsD
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    Congratulations! Your dress and wedding looked so beautiful.

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  • Maria
    Super October 2019
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    That venue is beautiful! Hope you truly enjoyed your day! Congrats!

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  • Madison
    Beginner May 2019
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    This is my venue as well and I get married this weekend! So thanks for some inspiration pics 😊 your wedding was beautiful! Congratulations!!
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  • Mrs. C
    Super May 2019
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    OH MY GOODNESS!!! You will love it! I hope you had better weather than we did! Also pro tip.....the back field behind the hoop barn is in FULL BLOOM and those pictures turned out AMAZING with the beautiful wildflowers! I would take full advantage of that if I were you! You having your ceremony in the barn or the hoop barn?! GIRLL I can't wait to see your pictures!! Smiley laugh

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