Non-traditional Filipino-american veil and cord rules

Congratulations and that’s very considerate of you to keep his family in mind! My fiancé and I are both Filipino and were raised Catholic. We are getting married in a venue outside of a church but are incorporating the veil and cord within our ceremony. Luckily we have an officiant who is very familiar with these Filipino traditions— I would first ask your officiant if they know them (if you’re hiring one). I don’t think there are really any rules for a nondenominational version of these ceremonies. I honestly think you could customize it.

Traditionally, they usually take place before rings and vows. The veil is first and the cord second. The officiant would first explain the symbolism of each one before calling up two “sponsors” who would then put the veil over you both. Then the officiant calls up another pair of sponsors who would put the cord over the veil. Sponsors are usually a male and a female of your choosing (usually close family members). The veil and cord remains over you both while the officiant, traditionally a priest, would say a prayer. Maybe instead of a prayer, your officiant could say some words of wisdom or provide more explanation of these ceremonies. Afterwards, the priest would call the sponsors back up to remove the veil and then the cord.

Here’s a helpful guide that’s more nondenominational friendly

https://www.officianteric.com/veil-cord-coins/

Sorry this was so long! I hope that was helpful!

Hi Anna! Do you mind sharing your ceremony template? My fiancé and I are having a garden wedding. As a Filipina and a catholic I want to incorporate these traditions on our wedding. Hope your preparation is going well. Thanks you!

Hi there! We haven't finalized our ceremony set-up quite yet unfortunately. I'll message you!