Anyone else not changing their last name after marriage? It doesnt seem fair that women are expected to change the name they've gone by their entire life, but not men. Also, I really love my last name, it's not very common and I'd like to keep it as is after we get married (no hyphen, no 2 last names). My FH and I discussed it and he says it's fine with him, so we're on the same page about it. I've mentioned it to some family and coworkers though, and they can't believe it. They were kind of shocked and made me feel weird about it, like I'm not being a good wife if I don't take his last name. Like, why wouldn't you have the same last name as your husband?? I thought it was becoming more common now, but I guess not?
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