So after a long debate, I decided not to change my last name, mainly for professional reasons, but also a few personal reasons. FH was bummed at first but got over it when he realized I wasn't going to be the person who really cared if people called me by his last name.
So I've started getting a TON of monogrammed things with what would be my new initials and also what would be my new last name. I wasn't really bothered at first because everyone assumes women change it. However, people I have been very clear with about my name have insisted I should change it and started to get things to "persuade me." I'm also getting a lot of unwanted opinions on the matter.
Did anyone else deal with other people's opinion on their last name? I'm standing my ground, but gosh I'm annoyed!