I guess I can call this a vent. So today my fiance and I were discussing him needing to already tell the guys that they were going to be his groomsmen (our wedding is in four months). I told him the reason why was because there were things the best man is supposed to handle. He asked what exactly those things were and realized that I wasn't too sure what but knew the best man needed to help with some stuff. Then we came to a conclusion that we're not doing things "traditional" where our best man and maid of honor are in charge of some the wedding planning. I began researching the duties of maid of honor and realized that half the things my maid of honor is "supposed to do", I've been doing on my own. And also realized, that the whole reason why I've been procrastinating with this whole wedding planning and not been too excited is that I didn't have my best friend (maid of honor) there with me through this whole process. A little backstory about her is she has given birth a baby girl last month, her daughter was born 2 months early. I understand the seriousness of the situation and didn't mention anything about the wedding because I was worried about her and the baby's health. She's been in mom mode ever since and has been bad at texting me back (not about the wedding but just checking up on her). I guess I didn't realize until tonight, just how lonely I felt with this whole wedding planning. My fiance has been supportive but, you know, it's not the same. I feel guilty for crying over this because I feel selfish but idk. Should I just continue wedding planning and just let her know bits of what I have been doing? That's what I've been doing throughout her pregnancy though it would of been awesome to have that additional support and made this whole thing more "fun". thoughts?
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