I'm really not looking forward to changing my name because
1) I'm so incredibly used to mine, and Mrs. _____ just sounds like my FMIL and I really don't like it. I'm also obviously a lot more attached to my family than I am his and identify solely with my own family.
2) It's such a long and tedious process (I have 3 passports)
Every time anyone jokingly refers to me as Mrs. ______ it makes me cringe. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Is this a bad sign?