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Champion July 2019

Not Good Enough

Veronica, on August 11, 2020 at 7:23 AM

Posted in Married Life 22

I caught my husband on his phone looking at porn while we were being intimate this morning. He also has been using porn a lot to get ready for intimacy lately. I have called him out on it, but he just shrugs his shoulders and doesn't seem to think it should matter. It is making me feel ugly and not...
I caught my husband on his phone looking at porn while we were being intimate this morning. He also has been using porn a lot to get ready for intimacy lately. I have called him out on it, but he just shrugs his shoulders and doesn't seem to think it should matter. It is making me feel ugly and not good enough. Meanwhile, he just pretends nothing happened. I've been in tears all morning since he left. I'm not sure what to do.

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  • Nefetera
    VIP March 2015
    Nefetera ·
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    Well as long as you expressed this to him now he knows or should know he definitely should respect that
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  • Shirley
    Expert November 2020
    Shirley ·
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    If he watches porn habitually, even alone, he will eventually also need it to be intimate with you. He is likely watching content that a wife can't/shouldn't replicate. He will continue to need more and more extreme porn or sex to become aroused if he keeps watching regularly. In my opinion, you don't need to spice up your sex life. He needs to cut it out with the porn and maybe see someone to move past it.
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