Not having a bachelor party what do you think about that

Bachelor parties don’t have to be about drinking. I’ve had friends go to Yosemite, travelnto great surf destinations, lots of things other than Vegas and getting wasted or going to strip clubs. It is about spending time with your friends and bonding. If you don’t want to do that several people do group parties and go somewhere together with your friends. You don’t have to do any of it- do what will make you happy.

Lots of men and women go without bachelor/bachelorette parties. You can choose to spend that time with your FW if you want to.

Bachelor/bachelorette parties are typically thrown for the bride/groom by their respective bridal parties as a gift. If you have any groomsmen, I would let them know ASAP that you don't want a bachelor party, especially one with alcohol and other things a good Christian man shouldn't partake in.

My husband's bachelor party didn't involve getting black out drunk...but...ok?

I'm not sure you understand what a bachelor party is?

It is a party thrown by somebody close to you to celebrate your upcoming marriage. That's it. It can take literally any shape or form. It can be all guys, or guys and girls. It can be hanging out at home or traveling to a destination. It can be 1 person or 100 people. It's up to the person who throws the party for you (with some input from you). If nobody offers to throw you a bachelor party, you don't even have to worry about this.

Also, I don't know what being a Christian has to do with this?

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Oh I see what's happening now.

My FH is an Atheist and is going to spend his bachelor party playing Dungeons and Dragons....So what's your point?

View Quoted Comment Being a Christian has nothing to do with but it Has to do with wanting to Respect my Future wife

View Quoted Comment Good for him just

View Quoted Comment I guess my husband disrespected me by being an atheist who played tennis, went out for steaks, and went to a sports bar...

View Quoted Comment That's awesome! I used to play in HS and no one played in college so it's been forever!!

Did I say your husband disrespected you by going to sports bars go for steaks and tennis the guys that would be hosting my bachelor party would want everyone to get super smashed ok

My FH is thinking of going to top golf for his bachelor party. If you don't want to have a good time hanging out with friends before you get married, that's cool but you have other options for a bachelor party.

Thanks Allison for Understanding!

My DH went white water rafting for one friends bachelor party, and for his they went hiking in TN. They did do some whiskey tours but no one got black out drunk.

Not sure why you think that's the only option. Tell your best man (you get to choose who that is, btw, not your FW) what you want and don't want and let them plan it.

View Quoted Comment Turn down their offer to host one then...or just don't drink.

I already told them and they were like we are getting super smashed

View Quoted Comment I feel like it's making a comeback. He has been in the same gaming group for almost 20 years! Even I get tired of video games at a certain point LOL.

I like whiskey and I drink whiskey with my Marine buddies

I threw a bachelor/ bachelorette party for my sis and brother in law. We rented a house in big bear. It was very fun, relaxing.

Jaimie that sounds like fun and Interesting