Not having a bachelor party what do you think about that

Again I don't have a problem drinking ok I go out to Bars and I would also rather drink at with military buddies

Honestly, it is pretty rude for those planning the party to plan something that involves excessive drinking if the person it is for doesn't drink much. If those people are your closest friends, they should have some sense of what you enjoy and should not pressure you to do things you aren't comfortable doing. There are plenty of things that don't involve getting drunk that you could do for a bachelor party. However, if your friends will not respect your preferences about not getting drunk, it is understandable that you wouldn't want to have the party.

I'm not sure why it's important to name drop.... Why does it matter who he is, if he's a christian or not?? If he's your best friend he'll plan something you like.

You drink, or not drink but prefer to drink with drinking buddies... Whhaaaattt??

FH and I don't drink, thus his best man, and my aid of honor aren't going to throw bach parties (if they choose to) with drinking...

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Lol this^^^

My FH doesn't drink, has never had a drop in his life. For his bachelor party, his brother (best man) is planning a night out to a sporting event (something my FH loves) to make it more geared towards his interests. Bachelor party isn't necessarily about getting drunk, just about having fun with the guys that you're close with

View Quoted Comment What is your problem with me

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I'm agreeing with OG Gretchen. Am I allowed to do that?

View Quoted Comment It seems like you got a problem with me personally I don't care what some of y'all think

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When or where did I say that? Why are you targeting me in these responses? Others are responding to your post but you seem to be only responding to me...

View Quoted Comment I am not offensive Or being aggressive I wanted to see what people's view point is and what did they do instead of having a party where they got smashed ok that's all

Have fun with that. It’s your bachelor party so your choice.

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My fiancé was a groomsman in his buddies wedding. His buddy had an awesome bachelor party. All the fellas chartered a boat for the day to go fishing for blue's on the Long Island Sound. My fiancé was thinking of doing a guided elk hunt out west. If you're an outdoorsman you could do something like that. A bachelor party doesn't have to be a drink until you throw up and stripper filled night of debauchery.

Thanks for the Idea

My FH is going camping with his friends for his bach party ! They will be drinking and not spending a whole lot of money- it can always be something for just one night too !

Bachelor and bachelorette parties aren’t just about getting wasted!!!! You can do whatever you want!

Whats something you have always wanted to do? Go on vacation to Nashville to see music? Go hiking? So skydiving? Go on a cruise? Even just a weekend trip to the beach.....

your bachelor and bachelorette parties are about having fun with friends. Having a “girls day.” Or a “boys weekend”

I love Nashville but I would like to go to Gatlinburg TN