Okay so I from beginning did not want my brother's girlfriend at my wedding. I lived with them in a house for 2 years and we all ended up hating each other. She is so uncomfortable to be around and we had a big fight... anyways there was always a lot of drama in the house... it was very toxic. Since then I moved out and it has been a huge weight off my shoulders, but now I barely talk to my brother and he is still dating her.
They have been dating for almost 3 years and since then I believe she has brought him down and she is very controlling of him too which I dont like..
From the beginning, my fiance and I do not want her at our wedding.
Reasons:
1. It's a small intimate wedding with only family like 15 people
2. I want to be surrounded by people I love and dont make me upset
3. I know my parents dont like her but they will never tell my brother because they dont want to get on his bad side because he is already distant with our family
4. No one else is bringing their girlfriend/boyfriend. So why does she get special treatment??
My parents are not in agreement with my decision. They think because they live together that she is family. I dont see that...they are not supportive like I want them to be.
I didn't think I was a dilemma because I'm going to invite her to our reception at a later date...
Should I just give in and invite her to please my family and prevent future drama?
Or should I do the wedding what I always pictured having surrounded by people I love.
My parents asked if I would be okay with my brother not coming? - i said it is his decision and if he wants to come support me then he is always invited. I would still probably invite them both to the reception after this.
I just need some input on what's right?
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