Hi everyone! I know it is a controversial topic, but I have chosen not to open gifts at the bridal shower tea that my MOH is throwing for me because 1.) I would rather spend the time actually talking to the wonderful ladies in my life and 2.) the attention gives me a lot of anxiety. I understand that there are some who are more traditional and want to see gifts opened, but I also find the gift opening part of a bridal shower to be incredibly boring as a guest.
That said, my MOH asked for input on how to phrase this on the invitations. I've seen some poems (usually requesting that people leave any gifts unwrapped) but they all make it sounds like it is mandatory to bring a gift, whereas the goal here is to express that quality time is the primary goal, but for those who choose to bring a gift, set expectations that there will not be a gift opening part of the day (whether that is opening things later OR bringing them unwrapped - I lean towards unwrapped just because that would at least allow guests to see what other people brought, which I know is the highlight for some).
Any suggestions for phrasing/wording to get this across?
Again, I understand this is controversial, so I am NOT looking for any judgement or "opening gifts is the whole point of the shower" type comments. Strictly looking for helpful phrasing. Thank you!