Hi all! I’m writing this message looking for a place to vent and ask if my feeling should be as hurt as they are.
I recently attended a dinner with 5 of my close friends. We all tend to have very different schedules so this took alot of planning to us all get together. As the night was winding down I got super tired and got ready to say my goodbyes but one of the girls insisted I stay a bit longer. To my surprise that same friend then pulled out bridesmaid proposal’s. As she quickly handed out the bags I awkwardly sat at the table feeling a tad uncomfortable as I did not receive one. Ive been told I tend to be overly sensitive so I tired to keep a positive face as I didn’t want to bring down the joy of everyone else in the moment but inside I quickly felt not valued. As though maybe she didn’t value our friendship as much as I did. Once all the girls received their bags they were all super excited but almost acted as if I wasn’t at the table anymore. As I felt myself getting more upset I said my goodbyes and got up to leave. She gave me a very awkward hug and told me she still loved me and went back to the group. I totally understand that this is a very special time in her life and she can absolutely choose who she wants of course! but it also makes me question are friendship. Is this unfair of me to do so? I didn’t understand why she insisted I stay for me to be excluded. I don’t want this to ruin our friendship but it has me really questioning where we stand.
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