Truth be told, I really don’t want a bridal shower or a bachelorette party. I don’t like the idea of “expecting” people to offer two gifts, “expecting” people to give more of their time to my exciting life event and, I also have a very short social battery. I dread social events. But, I’m my moms’ only daughter and only child getting married and I know she’s thrilled to throw me a bridal shower. So, I’ve accepted that I have to have one and attend. However, I am stuck on the bachelorette party. Again, I have a very low social battery and don’t do too well in social settings. Half hour in and I’m ready to go home and chill, lol. My mom and two MOHs are hell bent on me also having a bachelorette party. In a sense, I’m split because I don’t want to miss out on the fun and think that I let my anxiety get in the way of being more social. But, I also am a control freak – I’ll admit and want to plan what I do because my MOHs and mom will have me bar hopping, with strippers and I really don’t want that lol.
Anybody in the same situation and just have any thoughts or suggestions?