Not use to it

I had the same problem! I just had to ignore it completely.

I totally know what you mean! the most you could do though is give them some suggestions or ideas of what you'd ideally like.

View Quoted Comment I have have and she does know me and knows whay i like its juat hard being on the other side lol

I just completely avoided asking any questions about it and tried to change the subject if it came up. If you're not thinking about it, you can't worry about it!

I totally feel this!! I love planning things like gifts and parties (but I'm a huge introvert lol...#ironic) The thing is I tried to see if my bridesmaids were going to plan something and they apparently never had plans to...so now my FH and I are planning our own combined bach party since I'm close with his groomsmen anyways! We are all going to our local roller rink that we've rented out for just us! (covid friendly option yay!!) As for bridal shower...it doesn't sound like that's happening...I told my mom I wanted one and she didn't even respond. Oh well.

I'm the same way!! My wedding isn't until next August so my shower is quite a ways off and I'm hoping I don't struggle butting out lol.

View Quoted Comment O no! I am so sorry to hear that but that roller rink thing sounds like fun!!!! Im sorry no one is giveing you a bridal shower ether that to me every bride needs im not haveing one just because my FH wanted to come so thats why we just doing a couple shower plus it was way easier on my maid of honor who is thowing it for us

View Quoted Comment Lol she was plainning it but covid kinda messed it up for us but it all worked out in the end

View Quoted Comment Yeah we are excited for it! That sounds like fun!

Tell yourself, how angry I would be if my mom and MOG and friends all constantly had interrupted my plans, because they thought their ideas were superior to mine. This person or small group volunteered with ideas of her own. Don't step on it, the way you would hate others doing to you. You have plenty to do.

As others said, I would just ignore it. My MOH and bridal party planned my bridal shower and bachelorette party entirely without me. I didn't any details, including the dates, until the day. I'm very hands on usually to, so at the onset my MOH asked if I wanted to be involved in planning this stuff or have it be a surprise. I said surprise me, and they totally did and it was all amazing. Sometimes stepping back 100% is the best way to go.