Hey everyone! A little bit about my situation. We had to make the heart wrenching decision to cancel our May 17th wedding which is in NY and we decided to move it to November 8th. That was the only date left in 2020 that me vendors could accommodate. Like many of you I was so broken over it but with hopes that in 6 months things HAD to be better and change..... we are now 68 days away and there are still some restrictions that are making me frustrated and to be honest, angry!
The 50 people restriction is absolutely terrible. We had a minimum of 150 before so to cut out 100 people is a pain! On top of that, now my venue says that are going to charge double per plate to make up for it. No dancing, I am finding away around this is no one will tell me to not dance with my father or my future husband.
And lastly, the 14 day travel quarantine. I think I am most angry with this. How are they able to tell people they HAVE to stay in a city that is not their home for 14 days?????? I’m sorry but not a lot of people have the money or the time off to stay in a different city, pay 14 days for hotels, and dining. How are they able to make up this rule and enforce it? One of my family is on the 14 day travel quarantine list and that would mean that they couldn’t come to my wedding. At this point rescheduling is NOT an option. I am not going through it for the 2nd time. I do not want a wedding now and then I party later. Once I am done with something I am done. We are waiting to decide on September 8th (to see if the travel quarantine lifted) to decide to either lose money on our venue (they won’t refund 100%) or to just go along with it and people who are on the restricted list to come to NY may have to live stream it. Just sick of the whole situation.
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