Ok so my SIL is pregnant and although I am overjoyed for her, I looked at her registry (registered at Pottery Barn and Babies R US) and about died. She registered for an $1,200 dresser for the baby among other things. Also she put on there 2 diaper bags from pottery barn that are $160 each! We decided that with our budget we couldn't afford the higher priced items per say but wanted something that would be put to good use. we decided on the stroller/ infant car seat combo and paid 1/4 of the dresser cost. Now, DH and I are not parents and don't have kids, but does the expensive stuff really matter? I feel like its a little gift grabby? I may be wrong, but is it normal to be a little put off by her astronomically high choices?