Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hello brides! I have a dilemma. I have a gorgeous bridal gown, but it may not be as appealing to wear it for our first dance salsa routine. Would it be cheesy if a wear a more comfortable dress for...

Okay, I booked an all inclusive venue, where the vendors are linked through them: the dj, the wedding coordinator, the bar and bartenders, the cake baker, the caterer, etc. the only people we had the...

Hi everyone! I am having a hard time deciding on what I want for my wedding. I would really like to have a smaller ceremony and dinner with family only and then have an after party with our family and...

With somany things changing I am wondering who is to pay for what for the wedding and rehearsal dinner, engagement party etc?

I'll obviously be feeding my vendors a hot meal, but should I make sure they each get a slice of cake? If not to eat at the ceremony, to at least box up and take home?

I didn't find anything against forum rules, but this was the only place I could find to get advice! A good friend of mine invited me to her wedding which is happening in a few short months. I will be...

So, I have an old friend who moved away in highschool. We re-connected a couple years ago when she was diagnosed with MS and I went to visit her many states away. A few months later, she came to visit...

My fiancé wants his ex-wife at our wedding. He told me it’s only because he knows his son, who is 12 years old, wants her to be there. I hadn’t even met her up until a few weeks ago because I told him...

Seeking a new perspective or wondering if I’m the asshole for expecting too much? I’ve been planning my wedding and parties leading up to for about a year now. And I have 2 best friends who said they...

I’m 36 and getting married for the first time in November. I lost my mom when I was 23 and my dad when I was 27. I’m an only child and have some extended family but not that I’m close enough to for it...

I got divorced and never changed my last name. We have 2 kids together and we all share the same last name. Now, my ex has remarried, and the new wife now shares the same last name with all of us. I...

HTB's parents have devorced and remarried, mine are still together, his step father is officianting for us, his bio father is a groomsmen. We are paying for our wedding ourselves, his bio mom and step...

So my RSVP deadline was yesterday and I still have about 30 outstanding RSVPs. I was thinking about reaching out but part of me feels...well, desperate? It's weird but asking people to send them in...

So we're in the 60 day range of the wedding now, and I'm faced with a tiny conundrum. Both my fiancé and I love tradition, and are both very sentimental people in general but he is extremely...

My future mother-in-law wants my fiance & me to host a small party after we get back from our honeymoon to open our gifts. She says this is pretty standard, that people come over to the new couple's...

How many seats are you planning on having on each side of the aisle? I was thinking 6 or 8.

My fiancé and I want to have a small wedding with just immediate family in the backyard of my families lake cabin which is 6-9 hours from most of our family. But I feel like I should have some sort of...

I thought it would be nice to include this as a small section towards the end of our program (didn't want to do a table with a candle and frame). I included both of my grandfathers, all four of his...

I'm at a total loss right now, absolutely gutted. To keep this short, my fiancee and I are having a kid-free wedding (in less than 2 weeks)! We already told his family - all traveling from out of...