NWR- completely torn ACL grade 3

FH had his repaired in November. He had to be in a brace for 6 months. He was in PT for a month. His was torn for 2 years prior to repair. You may ask about the option of waiting until after the wedding?

At least you have a good story! My only advice is if you're going to be on crutches for more than a week or two, look into ergonomic crutches. I got them on Amazon when I had hip surgery and they make it so much more comfortable. They absorb the shock, don't hurt your armpits, and fold up when not in use. Wishing you a speedy recovery!

I'm a little late to comment but just wanted to send some well wishes and advice! I had ACL repair surgery in 2008 and it was rough but not horrible. Obviously follow what your doctor advises, but because of scheduling it was about a month between my tear and surgery so maybe you can delay the surgery until after the wedding? I was in a full leg brace that whole time but had it loosened to allow for full bending after about a week or so. You don't need an ACL to live (but do if you plan to lead an active life without pain or discomfort), so the brace is there more for comfort and to hold everything in place so there's no more damage. It sounds like I had the same surgery as Snarky -- cadaver tendon (I named him Slim) and laparoscopic surgery. Laparoscopic means they use a robot-type thing so that there are a few small incisions as opposed to slicing you open. I echo everyone else to take care of yourself, be diligent with PT, and try not to stress too much.

My tear was in college and I went on spring break to Mexico the following week. It was actually pretty funny/ridiculous because I got a spot up front on the airplane so my leg could be extended and was escorted through the airport in a wheelchair. Plus I learned how to ask, "Can I put my crutches behind the bar?" in Spanish lol. My friends still ask if I can tear or break something before vacations so that they can get special treatment

Hi Lauren,

My fiancee tore her ACL and Meniscus a few months ago and is getting surgery on Tuesday. Out wedding is on October 19th and she was told by the doctor that she probably wont be able to dance or do too much. I found your post and was wondering if you could share your experience with me? She is having a really hard time right now and we are co suffering postponing our wedding for her to heal, but she feels she is letting me down. I would love any advice you might have, and would love to hear how much activity you were able to do on your big day. Thank you so much!