I am getting married next month and I am 31 years old. Many people my age are dying to have children or already have children, getting pregnant is the top priority on their list. As hard as I try, I just do not have this urge. I do think kids are cute but just can't bring myself to give my life over 100 percent to care for a little human being for 18+ years, I think if you have kids you should be there for them 110% and I just can't do this and do not feel comfortable doing this until I am ready to do this, but the thing is I don't know if I will ever be ready. I feel like there is something wrong with me. To many of my friends, maternal instinct comes as naturally as eating or breathing, so why don't I have it? Is there something wrong with me? To those who want to have children/already have children, have you always known you wanted children or did you have to think about it?
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