NWR- that one girl who has to tag along to guys night. . have one?!

YES. I have TWO of them. It annoys me to nooooo end, and it annoys FH too because his friends won't stand up to their girlfriends. Oh well. Overcontrolling girlfriends, I am telling you.

How often are these guys' nights? If they are frequent I can see her point. If they are only once in awhile she probably should step back a little. To be fair, maybe her husband made plans with her & then found out about guys night. I wouldn't worry about it too much, I know I wouldn't want to have to spend the night with a bunch of drunk guys, let her deal with that nonsense haha.

Sounds like she is SUPER insecure. Maybe it's because she got picked up in a bar and thinks her H will pick up another chick there???? I don't know. Guys night is guys night. Women don't belong unless expressly invited. I will always respect (and encourage!) that.

This would be the last event he'd be invited to....

I ENCOURAGE guys night cuz I get girls nights ALL the time and I love them. His friends don't really have wives or serious gf's yet but I am waiting

The guys nights are MAYBE once a month! This is the first one in a while. Since alot was going on for me. She said the guy who was also invited was her friend first and she hasnt seen him so she was going.

This group of guys go for wings, have a beer and talk abouy cars! Tonight it was to help a friend through a break up and shes tagging along.. FH is mad and upset he even told him

That would be so frustrating... I also encourage guys night because it's good for FH to go out with his buds and just be guys! I'll have fun if I go, but I don't need to spend every second with FH! She needs to find something to keep her busy when her husband is hanging out with friends.

Exactly, he needs it and I have my time also. She goes out and does whatever she wants spends whatever ,money she wants but he cant have one night. We went to lunch last saturday with FMIL and he came with us cause she was at work, it actually took 20 minutes to decide on a place because certain locations he CANT GO to if she isnt with him,..wtf?!

My mud masks, murder porn crime mysteries, champagne, and hot tub time take a backseat UNTIL a guys night comes up and then I'm SUPER excited

I also encourage FH to do things with just the guys! I have girl nights with my friends too. A lot of FH friends are single so I go from time to time when invited find myself being the only girl or 1 of two girls

Have you tried to make friends with her? maybe she has NO friends and is actually just really lonely. Idk, I'd try to go out for a drink with her on guy's night see what happens

She sounds jealous/insecure. I encourage my FH to go out with his friends, gives me some quiet time at home and I don't have to watch him play video games all night. I have a friend lime that when she starts dating a guy almost instantaneously she had to know where he is and what he's doing at all times. It baffles her that I am not this way. She is like that because she has been cheated on many times before and thinks every guy will do the same. Maybe that it's why this girl is that way.

Oh yes, ive invited her over a million times, ive asked her to go out also. Shes very social, lots of girlfriends. Her issue is she must be center of attention, and one of the guys. I posted on here about FH going away two weeks before the wedding, she actually told him "you cant go away, its simply not okay two weeks before the wedding" she was mad about it, even asked if she could go since her man is goin!! I politely went off on her..

I dont know of one who tags along but my fiances best mans wife cannot STAND for him to have a good time if she isn't there ! He usually doesn't go out for stuff like a guys night because he knows shell get pissy and if he does go out she makes him feel like shit for it. We were talking about the bachelor party and how I was sure that no matter what happens she will be pissed at her husband about it. I dont understand it at all.

Oh gawd she's just a basket case who loves male attention no matter where it comes from -.- that'd infuriate me

I dont either.. why she cant just let him enjoy one night, we are very close to him and know that she 100% controls him and its sad. He cant go out to eat at certain olaces unless she goes?! I could see a special place for them but the local eateries baffles me!

I have come to deal with a lot, the flirting with FH and her contstant want and need to control him. Hes a grown man so he can say slmething which he does. Hes going home with muah so she can flirt her married ass to him all she wants lol but she needs to chill with always being up all the guys asses!

FH and I are friends with a married couple like that and it drives me nuts! She always has to be in control of him and if he will be having fun she NEEDS to be there. Then she hangs all over the other guys when they are out and he seems miserable. He's a really nice guy and she's a control freak...I feel so bad for him. Like your FH, they don't go out often, but she is always saying she never gets to see him. My FH was deployed for over a year so I really have no respect for couples who can't be away from each other for 12 hours haha.

Well technically my FH's best friend IS a girl, so she is there on guy nights, but she IS one of the guys, so that doesn't fuss me. What is annoying is the one guy's GF who is SUPER insecure and also insanely in love with my FH. FH knew her back in middle school and they never dated (FH actually introduced her to his friend and they are still dating). Everytime they would all go out for guys night she would come along and hang all over my FH and grab his butt or cuddle on him. And (as everyone including him told me) he would always politly push her off and tell her that what she was doing was awkward and really inappropriate. Everytime she would see me she would stare daggers at me. Basically, this B had to go. But I didn't have to do a thing. One guys night she went out with them (again) and "teasingly" tried to grab FH's ... man-bits... and he BLEW UP on her. Basically called her a fat, needy B and that she was delusional. Needless to say, she doesn't come around anymore

Bishes be cray.

I don't have that problem..I do encourage DH to go out with coworkers which he does after work a couple times. He actually turned them down before to hang out with me but I've told him it's important to go out with guys from work. I've never insisted on going. That's just insane. Sometimes I like "me" time. :-)

The sad part is this poor guy who just lost his girlfriend now has to be reminded of relationships because this wife of another guy is going. Very Inappropriate and how dare she ask to go on your FH'S trip.