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Sandra
Devoted September 2021

Odd Transportation Situation - help

Sandra, on May 12, 2021 at 1:56 PM Posted in Planning 0 7

Hii I want my very destination wedding to be as seamless as possible for our guests so any advice is welcome. Our wedding weekend consists of three events - Friday Welcome Dinner, Saturday Wedding, and Sunday Brunch. Saturday and Sunday's events are at the same venue, and Friday's is at a beach house owned by the venue. This beach house apparently has no actual address, according to my wedding planner, since it's more of a collection of terraces than a house. That means they HAVE to take our provided transportation to get there basically, otherwise they'll never find it lol.

Our venue is a villa that has only enough rooms for family and the wedding party so I researched hotels and suggested three all within a 15 minute drive. Room blocks/rates are not a thing in Spain unless you book and pay up front for everyone so the hotels are really just suggestions, no rhyme or reason to it other than location and not costing an arm and a leg.

My initial thought is that it would be best to simply choose 1-2 of those hotels and say that transportation will be provided from those points, at these times, on these days etc. If anyone decides to stay somewhere else, they are responsible for Ubering/taxiing to a hotel with a shuttle or directly to the event itself (other than Friday.) Is that fair? I feel overwhelmed at the idea of trying to find out where every guest is staying and arranging transportation but also anxious at the idea of the guest experience being affected by them not understanding why there is no address/where they're going/where is the transportation etc. I really think a frustrating transportation experience can seriously affect how someone feels about a whole wedding.

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Latest activity by Sarah, on May 13, 2021 at 4:21 PM
  • Kaylie
    Savvy October 2022
    Kaylie ·
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    Following this. My fiancé and I have a similar situation with our actual wedding. Essentially the town we are getting married in has a few small inns with maybe 10-12 rooms a piece. We need transport for our guests as we will have open bar and don’t want folks drinking and driving. But ultimately don’t think we can provide transport from every single inn that guests might stay at. Curious what others have to say about this.


    Though, my opinion is it’s fine to offer transport from only 1-2 of the hotels you picked. Especially since you said they’re all close. Could guests walk from one hotel to another? Even if not, I don’t imagine a few minute Uber to the central location would be too difficult.
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  • Rue
    Savvy October 2021
    Rue ·
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    I think that's a great idea – we're in the same boat as well, as not everyone attending the wedding will be staying at the same hotel as us.

    Our planner is helping us find a few hotel options close to our hotel so that everyone is in the same general area, and we hope to either have the transportation at a central location everyone can get to, or tell people they can take a taxi or their rental car (if they have one) if they want to get there on their own.

    The transport aspect is definitely a bit stressful!

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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
    Kari ·
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    I think this plan is totally fine. I've been to weddings in the states where transportation is from a single hotel and guests who weren't staying there just got themselves to the hotel to take the shuttle. I feel like it makes even more sense for a destination wedding in a different country and going to a location without a specific address. I would not worry about arranging private transportation for all of your guests staying at different locations.

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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    Be transparent as to what is going on. Your guests will appreciate the info and be more understanding of the situation if they have all the necessary details. Especially with being in an unfamiliar area/setting.
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  • E
    Super July 2023
    Eniale ·
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    This is perfectly acceptable.

    It would be an undue burden on you and also other guests for the transportation to have to stop where every guest is staying to pick them up.

    Providing 1-2 pick-up points is the normal protocol whenever transportation is provided, destination wedding or not.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    I think that's totally fair!!

    Can you include that information with the accommodations on your wedding website? We've decided on a specific hotel that way a few times - because it's been specifically noted on the website that "transportation will be provided to X events from X hotel"!!

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  • Sarah
    Master September 2019
    Sarah ·
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    This would be my advice too! Make sure you include where the transportation will pick up at. H and I always stay at whatever hotel offers the shuttle so we don’t have to figure out any other logistics.
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