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Beginner October 2022

omg I'm already overwhelmed

Sarah, on December 7, 2021 at 9:33 PM

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i don't even know where to start, but where i lost it was suggestions for what the groomsmen will wear. I was just thinking I can find the dress and maybe the flowers and the church. But then there are like 800 other things! I think I'm just having a moment. i don't really having anyone to help,...

I don't even know where to start, but where i lost it was suggestions for what the groomsmen will wear. I was just thinking I can find the dress and maybe the flowers and the church. But then there are like 800 other things! I think I'm just having a moment. i don't really having anyone to help, which is fine. but someone please tell me that this is normal and it will be ok.

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  • Taylor
    VIP October 2022
    Taylor ·
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    Also I just want to say my fiancé has been very supportive and super helpful when I need the help and has been very involved in picking our vendors with me and helping me when I need it with all the other stuff I’ve taken on. I made him sound super uninvolved but he’s an assistant manager for Home Depot and works A LOT and is really focused on trying to get a job in the field he got his masters in which was set back by the pandemic and not at all related to retail lmao. He’s going to be a statistician in the field of psychology which is very niche field which makes finding a job harder.


    I just feel like I made him sound like an asshole leaving me on my own 😂
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    Beginner October 2022
    Sarah ·
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    Hi Taylor,

    Let me start by saying how much I appreciate all of your advice. It's totally unexpected by someone I don't even know and I feel a little overwhelmed by your kindness. So thank you, for everything. Also I love that your wedding is the same month as mine so I kinda have a goal post to shoot for.

    Good to know about asking the venue vendor for there list of vendors. I don't know that i can do that yet because for some reason that is too scary. Like I can only look at the main vendors now and the ones beyond that is too much to handle for some reason. I know that sounds silly. Not sure why i feel that way.

    I am so impressed (scared) that you are taking on like 8 things on top of the wedding planning. I know that you are going to do great because you seem like you have a good idea of how to organize and what you want. I see and hope great things for you. BTW, what decorations and how? I knit and do some light sewing, so would love to have decorations that i could say, I did that!

    Your fiance sounds great and so happy that he's being supportive. I can't imagine how busy he is at Home Depot. And the statistician thing in psychology is crazy cool. The 2 seem like polar opposites, kinda like an architect with their math and art. It seems like you're doing everything right and the road trip sounds perfect.

    Sarah

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