So we just started looking for venues...We are getting married Sept. 5th of this year.
We had to visits scheduled yesterday and his grandmother passed yesterday morning. I was like okay, what do you need me to do, I canceled our appointments (instinctively), etc...
He still wanted to visit the venues after checking in on family for a little bit...I was shocked, but said alright...made a few quick calls. We went to the two spaces, he looked really out of it so we cut it short and headed back home.
He looks super down, I don't want to be insensitive and continue to talk about planning...but I also know we need to lock these dates in because we are getting close. I just scheduled my 1st dress fitting for tomorrow.
What do I do? Put it on pause for a week or two? Let him take the lead in revisiting the planning talks? Do I offer to push back our wedding date (if needed)?