On hold

I don’t think anyone can answer this with how vague the details in your post are.

I'm not sure what to say because I don't know what the argument was about, and it's not any of my business I know. I don't know if i'd call it a sign, i'd call it wedding stress. Maybe cooling down now will help you both see things clearer. Do you want to wait? Does he? I'd have a talk once you are both in a better frame of mind.

You didn’t give enough details for us to give you an accurate answer.

Just remember the relationship comes first, the wedding and all its trappings and all its stresses and fun must always, always come second. Good luck and best wishes.

If you find that wedding planning is taking too much of a toll and you’re sure it’s not the relationship, then I recommend you consider a courthouse wedding or microwedding. Very little or no vendors, it takes soooo much stress off.

Ugh. Been there. Buuuut, if you both take this opportunity to talk it out, it’ll help both of you communicate TONS better once you’re married. Be sure to express how you feel & why.

I know the feeling we had an argument the day after we booked ours about something so stupid.. I felt dumb then we talked and made a promise to talk things over and not2hold things in that bothers us..

With the vague details given it just seems reactive, if it was over something mundane. We all get in arguments and handle arguments differently but understanding and knowing how you come out of that argument and that it works for you as a couple is equally important. It could be that you were being reactive and rather than being reactive figure out what works for you to come to a cool off point before reacting to something.

f it’s something that wasn’t mundane and means that much to you that you felt this argument validated placing the actions of marrying your fiancé on hold definitely feels like you should be having a deeper discussion of why that is so.