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Rachel
Just Said Yes December 2024

Only serving cupcakes for my reception?

Rachel, yesterday at 1:33 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 6

Hello! I'm just hopping on here because I am so torn on whether or not it's okay to just serve cupcakes at my wedding reception! My fiancé and I are broke college students working to save enough money for our wedding, and although I really wanted an evening wedding, we decided against it because of the fact that we wouldn't have enough money to serve a full blown dinner. So now our current time slot at the venue is 9am-1pm (we can start or finish whatever time inside that slot). On top of that, the venue doesn't allow outside *any* catering or outside food other than cake/cupcakes (which means absolutely no other snack foods/veggie trays, etc), and their quote for just hors d'oeuvre was a little over $4k, which absolutely blows our budget out of the water. I'm wondering if, 1. just serving cake/cupcakes would be unacceptable and rude, and 2. how to make sure everyone knows, so they won't be expecting anything other than just cupcakes. I've debated putting "cake and punch reception", but I know that some people will still think there would be *some* other foods. I know this isn't ideal, and I would love to be able to feed my guests appropriately, but unfortunately this is our current situation.

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Latest activity by Jacks, today at 12:47 AM
  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    I think it would be acceptable! However, make sure that your reception ends by around noon, so that no one expects a full meal/lunch. On your invitations, you could say something like, "A reception after the ceremony will take place from [start time] to [end time] at [location]. Cupcakes/cake and punch will be served."
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  • Andrea
    Rockstar January 2024
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    A cake & punch reception is perfectly acceptable, as long as it’s not across a standard meal time. Finish at 11:30 or noon, giving you an hour to clean up, and your good. I like Lisa’s wording above.
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  • Rachel
    Just Said Yes December 2024
    Rachel ·
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    Thank you for the advice! I am definitely going to put that on the invitations!

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  • Rachel
    Just Said Yes December 2024
    Rachel ·
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    Thank you so much!! I am so relieved it wouldn't be majorly frowned upon! You're totally right about having to end before noon. I would feel so bad if I kept people from having lunch!

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  • R
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    Since it will be in the morning I think I d choose an item a little more breakfast/brunchy. Either donuts, muffins, or bagels. If you can swing coffee and juice too that would be lovely. Congrats!
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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
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    Etiquette-wise, there's nothing at all wrong with your plan! I would see if you could serve coffee and tea with it too, that would be a nice touch. Congrats!!

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