Hi! I have an extremely opinionated and big family. I have 9 aunts who along with my mom, feel the need to give me their opinions on everything. I tend to people please so from even before I started wedding planning, I mentally put up the boundary that I would go into this without sharing much information to people whose opinions I didn’t want so that I wouldn’t change everything about the wedding to fit everyone else’s opinions. But, this has caused my family to feel like I am being hard-headed and secretive and for whatever reason, they can’t accept when I reject their ideas and not consider them.
Can anyone relate to this? Does anyone happen to know why family feels the need for their opinions to be considered instead of just being okay with my decisions? I know I could just say “I’ll think about it” but I’m just trying to understand why they simply have to hear these set of words instead of just accepting I’ve already made a decision. (Also my fiancé and I are funding this wedding ourselves so I really don’t feel like I owe anyone anything)
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