My fiance and I are in the very early stages of planning a wedding for about 70 people. My aunt, cousin, and grandmother are Orthodox Jews who observe Shabbat. They would not attend a Friday night or Saturday wedding until after sundown. They know that I'm aware of this, so if we plan a Saturday evening wedding knowing they would have to miss it, it might hurt their feelings and they will likely be passive aggressive about it for a long time. We've never been especially close and it's actually been a somewhat tense relationship, but they are immediate relatives...albeit a small minority of our guest list. Do we stick to a Sunday brunch so they can attend, or just go for Saturday night and ask for forgiveness?
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