Hello,
My wedding was pre-covid. I'm curious to know if this is typical/expected or not. We live in the US and my parents had invited several distant relatives, and several made the trip and attended our wedding - some from other parts of the country and a handful from Europe. I had not met any of the Europe family before. The rest of the out of town family from my side, just once. Everyone paid for their own flights. My parents paid for the hotel rooms for those from out of state and the international guests stayed at my parents' house for ten days. My parents took everyone out to dinner once (nothing fancy, pizza) and then they all came to the rehearsal dinner, a catered luncheon at my parents' house before the wedding, and then my family had a brunch for them at the hotel before that group left.
Then for the international guests (my mom's cousins), my parents covered all their meals in the house of course but any sightseeing, museums, theater, sports game, nice dinner downtown, my parents treated for everything. My husband and I actually treated for the sports tickets and all the food there because we went too and were happy to do that. Is that expected etiquette? The guests do well for themselves, it wasn't because they couldn't afford anything, I think my parents just felt like they should cover everything as their hosts. Has anyone been in this scenario? How did you or your family handle? I guess it can apply to regular visits from family too, not wedding-related.