Over it

I can understand your feelings! There are some projects I wanted to do but now I'm at the point where I don't care about them anymore. lol! I'm at the point where I just want it to be the day and celebrate. The planning part is wearing me out!

Looks like you've been planning for over a year, yeah, I definitely understand loosing steam! Wedding planning felt like a part-time job I was losing money towards. I suggest planning in some good R&R. Recharge and ignore the planning for a bit. Might do a world of good!

View Quoted Comment Love this idea! Luckily we have four nights planned away at the beginning of August to celebrate our birthdays 🎉 I was so excited at the beginning but now I just want to be married and go on my honeymoon lol

Definitely not just you! I feel like it is taking forever too! There has been a lot of drama and ups and downs and I have never been so stressed about something in my life! If I had it my way, we would have eloped already and been done with it. Lol

View Quoted Comment Same! I remind my fiance all the time that I wanted to elope to Mexico and he wanted the big wedding at home hahaha

View Quoted Comment Haha. My sister moved to Hawaii (army wife) back in March and tried to convince us to go there and have a small ceremony on the beach. I was like hell yes! FH was like but no one will be able to be there. Needless to say, we didn't go to Hawaii and he'll have his audience! 😂

When I was feeling that way I just took a break. I think for like 2 weeks I didn't address a single wedding related issue. When I cam back to it, I was feeling better.

View Quoted Comment That's a great idea! I don't think it helps that my bridesmaids are MIA so I'm also helping my mom plan the shower... A break is needed

You're definitely not alone. I'm excited but over it at the same time. Just want to be married and planning the next phase in our lives.

View Quoted Comment Exactly! Whenever I talk about what comes next my fiance has to remind me to enjoy this time because it only comes once. God bless him 💓

Definitely not just you. I find myself going back and forth between somewhat enjoying it & being totally over it & completely stressed out. When I'm feeling really stressed out I talk to my FH and he helps calm me down - in a few different ways, really depends on what I upsetting me, sometimes just a good old fashion date night, sometimes a hike or something outdoor, sometimes he just floats me money for the thing that I really wanted and sometimes he just gives me perspective.

View Quoted Comment Glad I'm not the only one! Sounds like you are def marrying the right guy 🥰 I'm struggling with thinking that I should be doing more. Like "oh, all the stair rails need floral arrangements" which I didn't plan or budget for haha. So now I go back and forth on wether to add things

Yup!!! Been there. Can you take a weekend or at least 1 day off (or play hooky for a weekday)? You need a break to make it through the last 30 days!!

View Quoted Comment Agreed! We are getting four nights away at the beginning of August to celebrate our birthdays. Bonus I have a week off work before the school year starts 😁

I'm 30 days out and feel ya!!! I'm teaching summer school.the next 3 weeks so I at least get a break from wedding madness 😂😂 we have everything pretty much done except for things we literally cant do until closer to the wedding so I was going stir crazy! I'm just ready for it to be here, and for us to go on our mini moon to the Finger Lakes before I start back at the school!

View Quoted Comment I here ya! Working doing summer programs is keeping me sane lol

View Quoted Comment Haha, who knew I was marrying such a diva 😂

View Quoted Comment Haha! Right? People laugh when I say this is my fiance's wedding, I'm just planning it! 😂

I haven't really found planning to be exciting yet. I am now down to invites, tuxes, buying decor/DIY'ing, and I have little to no motivation. I have to schedule a tasting, my shower is coming up. I really want to plan a honeymoon but have no idea if it's cost effective to do so and FH won't sit down and decide where to go with me. I am kinda over it. I am just rolling with the punches I guess, but don't feel like doing anything.

I feel this way all the time. we are 98 days out and i wish it was done with already. i feel like my mind can only focus on wedding stuff. i can't remember anything, and feel stressed all the time. i know the day will be wonderful and beautiful but i can't wait for the day after and just have it be done with.