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Maggie
Champion October 2025

Over or Under: 14 Month Engagement?

Maggie, on March 12, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 226

There’s a lot of time between your #justsaidyes moment and saying “I do”! In fact, the average couple is engaged for 14 months. How long will your engagement be? Are you over or under the 14 month average? Photo from Melissa Koren Photography in New Hampshire Did you know: nearly a fifth of all...

There’s a lot of time between your #justsaidyes moment and saying “I do”! In fact, the average couple is engaged for 14 months. How long will your engagement be?

Are you over or under the 14 month average?


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Photo from Melissa Koren Photography in New Hampshire


Did you know: nearly a fifth of all engagements happen in December around the holidays?


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226 Comments

  • Maureen
    Dedicated March 2020
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    Ours is right on the nose with 14 months. We wanted to give ourselves time to plan, pay, and enjoy being engaged. We are friends with a couple who got engaged on Valentines day this year and will be married in October and the stress of that is haunting to me, especially how large their wedding will be.

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  • A
    Savvy October 2020
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    Way over! Got engaged September 2018 and we're getting married in October 2020!
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  • F
    Dedicated November 2019
    Fia ·
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    Under. Shy of a year engagement. 11.5 months.
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  • Casey
    Beginner October 2023
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    Over, got engaged Feb. 2019, getting married Oct. 2020 so 20 months
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  • Amanda
    Expert October 2019
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    Over. 16months total
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  • Jessie
    Devoted May 2019
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    Over- been engaged since August 2017
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  • FutureMrs.C
    Dedicated August 2020
    FutureMrs.C ·
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    Over! 21 month engagement Smiley smile we wanted more time to save up and take our time planning!
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  • Katherine
    Expert July 2019
    Katherine ·
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    Under! It will be in the 7 month range for us. We got engaged on New Years Day.
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    19.5 months...about 8.5 left to go
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  • idosoon
    Devoted February 2020
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    Over , we will be about 1.5 years when we get married

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  • WifeyPoo
    Devoted July 2019
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    9 month engagement

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  • ChefKait
    Devoted December 2019
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    Over! 16 months! We got engaged in August 2018 and we are getting married in December 2019!

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  • Maggie
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    Maggie ·
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    How did your engagement happen, Sophia? Was it a surprise?

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  • Brandi
    Dedicated May 2019
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    We are under the national average. Our engagement is only 9 months long.
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  • Jessica
    Dedicated August 2019
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    Oh my gosh WAY over. 25 month engagement lol although the military got in the way so that’s not normal.
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  • Lc
    Super September 2018
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    Over, 27 months!
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  • Tynesha
    Dedicated May 2019
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    Under 13 month engagement

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  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
    JustKidding ·
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    Over 16 months.

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  • Maggie
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    Maggie ·
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    Yeah, I think that's an exception to the average. Smiley laugh

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  • K
    Dedicated September 2022
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    Just around 16 month engagement for us

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