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Maggie
Champion October 2025

Over or Under: 14 Month Engagement?

Maggie, on March 12, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 226

There’s a lot of time between your #justsaidyes moment and saying “I do”! In fact, the average couple is engaged for 14 months. How long will your engagement be? Are you over or under the 14 month average? Photo from Melissa Koren Photography in New Hampshire Did you know: nearly a fifth of all...

There’s a lot of time between your #justsaidyes moment and saying “I do”! In fact, the average couple is engaged for 14 months. How long will your engagement be?

Are you over or under the 14 month average?


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Photo from Melissa Koren Photography in New Hampshire


Did you know: nearly a fifth of all engagements happen in December around the holidays?


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226 Comments

  • K
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Kasondra ·
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    Over! We’re getting married three months before it would’ve been a three year engagement!
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  • Mrs Sullivan
    Expert June 2019
    Mrs Sullivan ·
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    Ours will be 14 months
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  • B
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Barbara ·
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    Over - 15 month Engagement.

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  • Kristin
    Super November 2019
    Kristin ·
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    Over: It'll be 20 months when all said and done. I really wanted a fall wedding but there was no way I was going to drive myself nuts with trying to do it in 6 months.

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  • Claudia
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Claudia ·
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    We were living in a different city when we got engaged, and had plans to return home. For starters we couldn't afford to pay for a wedding because we were saving to buy a home. We also wanted to wait to start wedding planning until we returned home and recovered from the initial expense of buying a home.

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    VIP July 2017
    Becky ·
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    Under - 6 months and 1 day

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  • Lannie
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Lannie ·
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    Over : got engaged on January 1, 2018 and will be married on June 8, 2019 ☺️
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    Our engagement will be 2 years, 2 months, from the date he popped the question until our wedding day.

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  • Ginsteeca
    Expert June 2019
    Ginsteeca ·
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    Over. 20 months start to finish for us.

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  • Marjani
    Savvy July 2021
    Marjani ·
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    2 year engagement. We need time to put this together (and save).

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  • Kelly
    Savvy August 2019
    Kelly ·
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    Under! We will be 2 days shy of 12 months
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  • Kate
    Devoted June 2019
    Kate ·
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    Over by double, got engaged March 2017 and getting married June 2019.
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  • Shamika
    Dedicated June 2019
    Shamika ·
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    We will be right at the 14 month mark by hour wedding day.
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  • Jennifer
    Super December 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    Over - 3 years and 2 months. We had thought it would be 14 months but then talked to the financial aid office for my fiancee's vet school and found out just how much aid we would lose being married so we are waiting til after graduation (+ 6 months because I really want a winter wedding!)

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  • K
    Just Said Yes July 2019
    Kristin ·
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    Just a bit over... we got engaged in April 2018 and we're getting married July 27, 2019.

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  • Faith
    Dedicated August 2019
    Faith ·
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    Under. Engaged August 2018 getting married August 2019!

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  • Christine
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Christine ·
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    9 month engagement

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  • Kalynn
    Savvy March 2020
    Kalynn ·
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    OVER! got engaged 7-6-18 getting married 3-21-20

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  • N
    Devoted June 2019
    Natalie ·
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    Over! Engaged in November 2017 getting married June 2019 - so about 19 months

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  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
    Maggie ·
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    That is a long engagement, Kasondra!! Is there any particular reason why you've waited to get married?

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