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Kashawn
Super March 2017

Over wedding planning

Kashawn, on February 28, 2017 at 12:01 PM Posted in Planning 0 43

As I'm getting closer to the wedding date after being engaged for 14mos and doing tons of planning, I'm not longer interested in any other details of the wedding. I'm mentally drained and I just want to show up and get married. Is there anyone else who is living in a bubble of I no longer give a ____?

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Latest activity by Alexis, on July 24, 2018 at 5:36 PM
  • A
    Devoted October 2016
    Amber ·
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    That was definitely me. By the end I'm like "I'm done making decisions, just make it look pretty". Unfortunately I even told my mother and decorator this but when I showed up for rehearsal they still bombarded me with questions and I ended up in tears over the stress even after spending the afternoon at the spa with my girls. Wasn't too happy with that.

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  • APZ
    VIP March 2017
    APZ ·
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    MEEEE!!!! But- I still have a couple big kinks to settle...Other than those, I handed everything else to my mom and said do it if you'd like..or don't, I don't care anymore. I don't want to see it, get questions about it. nothing.

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  • Juli
    VIP March 2017
    Juli ·
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    Me! me! I still feel like i have so much to figure out! Like cake table decor, card table decor, assembling our DIY Photo Booth and honestly, I'm waaaaay over everything hahah

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  • Kathryn
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    I felt that way when I was planning! By the time July 1st hit I just didn't care about details anymore. I was so worn down! Make a list of what you HAVE to get done, and a list of what you want to get done. Focus on what you have to do and don't let yourself stress too much about the rest. By the end of the day you'll be married, and that's what matters Smiley smile

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  • MissiePanda
    Super March 2017
    MissiePanda ·
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    Me too, date twin. We're almost there. I booked a trip to the spa with my girls to calm my nerves! Smiley smile

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  • Kashawn
    Super March 2017
    Kashawn ·
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    I'm so glad I'm not the only one because everyone is looking at me crazy like I should be super excited. I'm excited to marry the love of my life but everything is I just don't care about anymore. Lol

    Hey date twin!!! @missiepanda you're the first person I've seen on here that is my date twin! Lol

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  • melbooks
    Devoted April 2017
    melbooks ·
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    I've been feeling that way and feel bad because I keep changing things trying to make them simpler and easier. As it gets closer I want to think less about details.

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  • Kashawn
    Super March 2017
    Kashawn ·
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    @melbrooks I feel ya girl! I'm done with the details. Nobody's probably going to notice them anyways. Lol

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  • Angela
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    Angela ·
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    That's been me on and off. IDGAF struggle is real

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  • Pia
    Super October 2017
    Pia ·
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    Awww. I was there about a week ago and my wedding is 8 months away. I just feel like long engagements (13 months) is totally overrated. I am mentally drained and it is why I come here.... selfishly I like to see everyone else go crazy and vent so I know I'm not the only one OVER THIS MESS!!

    Anyway. I love your e-picture and I see you are in Fullerton. It's going to be a beautiful California day!

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  • V2O
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    V2O ·
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    ME! and I have 10 months to go!

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  • Kashawn
    Super March 2017
    Kashawn ·
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    @jj the cake tasting had probably been my favorite part other than food tasking. Lol. I'm everything just gets so overwhelming... especially when it comes to decor. U will get more excited as it gets closer, then overwhelmed again. Lol.

    @angela yea I definitely am there. Been sitting in that idgaf bubble for about a month. Lol. Supposed to be doing my seating chart which was done but thanks to ppl sending their rsvp late I had to revamp it. Now Idc where ppl sit. Just find a place and sit down. Lol

    @pia I swear my guilty pleasure is coming on here and reading all the comments on the hot topics posts. Hahaha. It's very entertaining. Thank u! I'm hoping it's a nice day because it's been raining like crazy every other day. Starting to think California is the new Washington. Lol

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  • Kashawn
    Super March 2017
    Kashawn ·
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    Hang in there girls! We can get thru this! And just think at the end of all this stress we will be spending the rest of our lives together with our men!

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  • K Dot
    Super June 2017
    K Dot ·
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    I feel you. I am sooo over wedding planning. I'm excited for the big day, but I am just so overwhelmed with it all.

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  • AyEmVee
    VIP May 2017
    AyEmVee ·
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    Yep! I'm at this point too. Just trying to do the bare minimum at this point...which is picking out music, writing my vows and sending invitations.

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  • Emma
    Savvy March 2017
    Emma ·
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    Yes. Yes. Yes. I've got final vendor meetings tomorrow then I'm doing my best to just focus on life for the next week and try to ignore the wedding until I leave work on the 8th. You're almost there!!!!

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  • fsumissa
    Super March 2017
    fsumissa ·
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    That's me! Right now. For sure. People ask if I'm ready, or if everything's done. My response is hope so!

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  • Kashawn
    Super March 2017
    Kashawn ·
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    @emmab I have my final venue meeting thurs. this is the last thing wedding I'm doing. I'm protesting everything else. Lol. Hang in there girl. Ur almost there. Whoot whoot

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  • Kashawn
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    Kashawn ·
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    @fsumissa ur almost there and I'm sure ur wedding will be beautiful!

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  • Alicia v.
    Super March 2017
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    Yes I'm so over it!!!!

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