Parental Permission: Modern or Traditional?

Me and my dad talk but mainly whenever information needs to be relayed or it’s a holiday. I love him to death but not a strong bond. My mother and I are super close so I’ve always said whoever I marry will ask my mom not my dad and that’s what happened 💕

He asked my father about a month before he proposed

I wanted him to ask for my dads blessing and he did!

Traditional in the end, I make my own decisions but it means a lot to have my parents blessing in this journey

Traditional - He asked my dad a month before he purposed, and I didn't even know it. My mom told me after that he asked. It made me happy and it made my dad happy he asked

Triditional, both my parents are divorced but he still asked both my mom and my dad

He asked my mom (we were visiting her) for her blessing!

Extremely modern! I had previously told my dad that anyone who asks should be told no because they clearly don't understand how I think!
Dad said his default answer would be no anyway 😉
And I asked my fiance to marry me, it wasn't a proposal perse but he openly admits I'm the one that started the conversation to make it happen. I hate surprises and fiance doesn't think major life choices should be done in the traditional proposal manner.
We planned a surprise dinner to tell our parents and that was way more fun. His family had no idea and was completely blown away!
My parents were hoping we were announcing a pregnancy 😂🤦

Traditional. He asked my mom since my dad passed away and told his family before he proposed!

Modern. Did not ask. We have been getting asked when are we getting married for a few years so it was expected.

Modern, he didn’t ask for blessing until after he proposed because “he thought they would ruin the surprise”. Wish he would have though. Means a lot when they go out of their way like that

Modern, I personally don’t like the tradition of asking permission

He did not ask permission, first because we have been together for 10 years prior to getting engaged and second I am a feminist that doesn’t need her father’s permission to get married.

So non traditional. I think we just told my parents we wanted to think about getting engaged and they gave us components to put together, it was amazing!

Sadly, traditional. I really did not want him to ask my father, but he did anyway before I could even tell him not to.

He did ask my dad, but after we were already engaged!

So traditional. At the end of the day it's not anyone giving me away. It's myself.

Modern, we surprised my family with the news and then he asked. Technically, I'd say he had it from the time my parents said I found a good one.

Traditional. He did ask for my mom's permission/blessing

He asked my parents for their permission before he proposed the 1st time in December 2017, and he wanted me to talk to his dad this time around.