My son and his fiance' announced their engagement and set a date. The bride then set the number of guests at 100 and calculated a budget; which the parents happily agreed to split.
THEN
1) The bride told the parents that they would NOT be allowed to invite any of their friends; as the couple wanted to "make it their day."
2) Now there are only 35 RSVPs, so the bride has informed us she will use the extra wedding money to pay for their honeymoon.
My husband and I are not happy with either of the above decisions, but we don't want to alienate the bride.
Any suggestions on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated!!