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Just Said Yes November 2023

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Nicci, on January 5, 2022 at 12:17 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 4
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Ok so I’m not super close with my mother at all, Do to her being a drama queen and a narcissistic person, She thinks she is invited to my wedding and I never once said she was, What is the nicest way to let my parents know I don’t want them involved on that day, I truly just want to enjoy the day.

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Latest activity by Elly, on January 12, 2022 at 11:23 PM
  • Jasmine S.
    VIP May 2022
    Jasmine S. ·
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    Stop taking their calls. There is no good way to deal with narcissists other than to cut them off and don't play their game.
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    VIP January 2019
    Maggie ·
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    Yes, this. There are no magic words you can think of that will make them understand. But just because they are upset, that doesn't mean you are doing anything wrong. Protect yourself, keep your boundaries, and enjoy wedding planning.

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  • Samantha
    Super May 2022
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    I wouldn't just ghost them, this could lead to even more craziness. I would just tell her ONE TIME that she isn't invited due to reasons x, y, & z. Then refuse to discuss anything wedding related again if brought up.

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    Rockstar August 2023
    Elly ·
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    I agree with Samantha's advice.

    I am not sure who you are going to invite to your wedding, but be prepared that one of your relatives may spill the beans to her at some point.

    I would let your vendors and event staff know ahead of time who is not invited, and if they do show up to not let them in.

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